How to Read Eyes | Body Language

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there’s a number one wait a number of
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ways you can you read the eyes I’m blink
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rates really important to me
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I think blink rates really in terms of
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baseline behaviors blink rates a really
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effective way to measure certain
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people’s behavior so and I mean people
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can blink for a wide range of reasons so
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people could blink cuz the light in the
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room people always say well what does it
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mean maybe there’s contacts or dry yeah
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but if their contacts were dry they’d be
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blinking that way all the time
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go watch presidential debates right go
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watch mr. Mitt Romney and watch they
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talk about his finances his blink rate
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goes through the roof guy blinks like
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crazy because the anxious is try to
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answer a question he’s anxious like you
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go look with some buddies in a high high
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anxiety situation blink rates are
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through the roof because it’s
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emotionally laying right and the cool
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thing is it’s not just to see this
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people are blinking a lot but to see
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essentially at what point of the
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conversation do you see jumps or
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deviations and blink rates so all of a
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sudden a guy’s having a conversation
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with his girlfriend they’re having it
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you know everything’s fine not a nice
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conversation and then all of a sudden
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she accuses him of cheating at his blink
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rate goes to the roof doesn’t mean he’s
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cheating but it means he’s you know
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emotional about that topic
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alright so blink rates very very useful
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something easy all I gotta do is look
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somebody in the eyes count for 10
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seconds and see how many times they
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blink in 10 seconds and do that at
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several intervals and you can figure out
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their average finger it’s not that
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complicated so maintaining proper amount
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of eye contact is are very very
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important now what’s the proper amount
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of eye contact around 70 issue percent
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you know somewhere between sixty to
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eighty percent it really depends it’s
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really hard to to narrow down but you
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just shouldn’t be looking somebody in
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the eyes over and over and over again
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it’s one of the big mistakes people make
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on interviews they tell them make eye
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contact so they look at the person like
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this oh no I like yeah I want to work
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your job you don’t build an emotional
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connection that way because it’s
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abnormal people don’t make that much
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amount of eye contact another cool thing
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with the eyes is staring men tend to
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stare a little bit too much and they
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come off as creepy if you ever found a
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found a guy with like a creepy scary
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stare you tend to see two things one is
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their blink rates really low it’s cool
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thing about blink rate we like low blink
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rates and women
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we don’t like low bloom grades in men
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solo blink rates and women have like
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this pulling in effect when they stare
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you in the camera welcome that is it
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when men do it it’s creepy so it’s an
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interesting difference also with eyes
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dilated we like women’s eyes dilated
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more than we like men’s eyes dilated

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